Chingona Revolution is hosted by Erika Cruz, a rebel who left a 6-figure tech job to pursue her own unconventional path to success by following her passion that led to her purpose. Every week, Erika will bring out of you that BADASS LATINA through her experiences to overcome self-doubt and family expectations and lead with COURAGE.
Are you prepared for the worst case scenario? We hope it never happens, but with the news being flooded with layoffs and talk of a recession coming – we need to protect ourselves now more than ever. And we can! We just need a little bit of guidance. Â
Jenn Jamali is a first-gen Multicultural Career and Money Coach. With the wisdom from a decade in Fortune 500 recruiting, Jenn built her business from the ground up, funding her maternity leave through a knack for leveraging career opportunities. Now, as a proud mom and Coach, she’s on a mission to empower women to elevate their earnings and amplify their options. Jenn’s journey from corporate recruiter to real estate investor to Career and Wealth coach is fueled by her passion for manifesting success and her dedication to helping others navigate their path to financial freedom and career fulfillment. Through Jenn’s coaching, it’s not just about making more—it’s about keeping more and living a life abundant in possibilities.
In this week’s episode, Jenn shares how the worst case scenario happened to her. She was laid off from an amazing job while she was eight weeks pregnant. But she somehow knew she was going to get laid off WAY before it happened. So she prepared herself and had months of savings ready on standby for when it actually happened. Because of this experience, Jenn became a money coach that teaches women how to save for a possible layoff, land their dream job, and so much more! Listen to hear more incredible life advice and accessible financial strategies from a coach who helps WOC make money moves.
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Erika: Jenn, welcome to Ch*ngona Revolution podcast. I’m so excited to speak career, money, coaching, motherhood, and all the things with you.Â
Jenn: Welcome, welcome. Thank you so much. All my favorite topics. Thank you for having
Erika: me here. Yeah, I think it’s going to be such a valuable episode for the listeners, especially in today’s climate of there’s like so many layoffs, right?
A recession, like there’s just so many different things going on. And I think there’s a more, there’s a bigger need now for career and money coaches than ever before, especially, of color. So tell us a little bit about who you are and what you do, even though I’ve already kind of said some of
Jenn: it. Yeah.
so I am a first generation Colombian Iranian, yeah, mom, new mom. I’m a, I have an eight month old daughter and yeah, I. Transition to becoming from being a recruiter for many, many years to now I am a career and money coach, focusing on helping women really leverage their career and to be able to make more and have more options for themselves.
so yeah, I got laid off at eight weeks pregnant from my dream company, Spotify. And I, Yeah, I was like, this is a sign. It’s time for me to really be able to start my business, something that I’ve always wanted to do, this kind of business. so I’m excited to dive in more. Me too.
Erika: Okay. So let’s take it back.
I met you like in 2021, I believe, because you joined Courage Driven Latina. And at the time you were a recruiter. I actually remember that you transitioned into this dream job, like at the end of your time inside of Courage Driven Latina, right? And, I’m like just taken back to that trip when I was in Austin and then we went to the vision board party together and you like manifested everything on your vision board.
I feel like we should come back to that. But, okay. Tell us a little bit about your experience, like how you decided that you wanted to become a career and money coach. I think the career side kind of like is probably because you were a recruiter, right? So you already had experience there, but tell us a little bit about how you found the clarity to, Like, what happened in your life that made you find the clarity as to what you wanted to do?
Jenn: That is a loaded question, but yeah, I think it was definitely really focused on, yeah, my, I really discovered and took into account Personal finance in 2020, maybe a year before I met you, in October of 2021. And so I, I completely changed like the way I view everything, my values, everything when the pandemic happened.
And I think a lot happened to a lot of us. And so I completely changed my mindset around money and I was always a really good saver, but I also was a good spender too. And I was able to really focus on, you know, I completely focus on making more money and then I focused on. Investing in real estate and business was just something that was really exciting for me.
So in the pandemic, I also started a cake business and then I started my real estate investing portfolio. and then I was like, wait, I can do a lot of things with money. If I just keep on making more and keeping my expenses low and have been able to build, a real estate portfolio. And then in.
Courage driven Latina back in 2021, I was given the opportunity to lead a money and investing workshop, a wealth workshop. and I was just on cloud nine talking about money. I felt that I was just, I knew a lot more than I thought. And, but I also was able to help people really understand their money. So I knew this piece of career, having that experience in recruiting.
So that was what I knew. And then money and personal finances that I love. So I wanted to really. Marry the two together and be able to create coaching and help people really focus on their careers to benefit their personal finance and then build even more options for themselves. I just don’t think it’s taught to us, especially as first generation.
And I think we’ve also been fed like an American dream that we, I think at this point in 2024, we should be questioning. so really being able to, Yeah, teach people really looking at their money differently and how it can benefit them and looking at their career and how it can benefit them as well versus just being kind of at, the mercy of a business or of a company.
so yeah, I mean, I was laid off very easily from my nine to five, making great money. And so that I, I really prepared myself for this situation. So, but going back, that’s kind of how I married the two. I just saw like. Yeah. You need to be able to get your personal finances in a good place. You need to be able to make money, and then understand where your money’s going to.
I
Erika: love that. I’m glad you shared even like starting the cake business, because I think people. listening might have this assumption that they just need to already have it figured out and already know and the, the path to success is rarely straight. It’s going to have a lot of like twists and turns, but even the cake business, I’m sure taught you so many things about business that you didn’t know before that you’re then now implementing in your business now.
and I, you also said something about the American dream that we need to revisit. And I feel like that is. So key, especially because, and you’re bicultural, right? But like these two cultures probably told you the same thing of like, go find a stable job, stay there until you retire, save all your money.
Right. And then you end up getting laid off and it’s like, we think this is like the stable path and it’s, it’s not like, especially with a, with the job market is at this moment and. What happened to you is what everybody is fierce being laid off and then, but like out of the pregnancy component, right?
Like you were getting ready to tell your manager that you were expecting and then you end up getting that email from HR, right? So tell us a little bit about how you navigated what was like the worst case scenario and like how your own, like, cause this is literally what you help people with, but you had to coach yourself through this.
So how did you coach yourself through this?
Jenn: Yeah, so getting laid off was one of my biggest fears because I watched my mom get laid off multiple times growing up and so she would always be in this to have a very, you know, positive outlook, like I’m going to figure it out. We’re fine. I just got like, like, you know, I don’t have a job anymore.
So she was very open about that. But that also was like one of my core money memories was my mom getting laid off. And so that’s kind of what stuck with me about money. Like I gotta save, I gotta like, I take care of myself, but I always have to have that very, very comfortable job. Like I’m always looking for the net best job every time.
So going back to like, and then it. I don’t know. I just had a feeling from the second I started at Spotify that I was going to get laid off and I was getting reassurance multiple times like my, honestly, my manager had no idea the layouts were coming and he was just, you know, he’s like, no, no, you’re fine.
So from June of 2020. To I just had a feeling I was going to get laid off. So I moved to Spotify with a really increased salary. So I looked at that salary is like, that’s going to be my savings. That increase. Oh, smart. Yeah. I’m like, this is going to be my savings and my investing and like the money. But I’m going to keep my expenses low because I have a feeling this is coming.
So I really was able to see like the writing on the wall. I was like, Oh, you know, works pretty slow right now. Like this is, they’re like, Oh yeah, like this is work life balance, Jen. And I’m like, I don’t know about that. So, so like, you know, I was there to, I was really like. Preparing for the worst. And my goal was to start my family too.
So I specifically went to this company because of the amazing, parental, leave mother, yeah, maternity leave. It was six months. It’s a European company. I was so excited. I was like, yes, this is where I’m going to get pregnant. And then I’m going to take my maternity leave and then I’ll start my business on my maternity leave.
And then once that’s done, then I can leave my job and then I have, but it literally came. One year earlier. So that’s how I, so I was preparing for months, for this layoff. I was just saving. And then I was like, okay, I guess it’s time for me to start my business now. and I’m going to have a very stress free pregnancy.
That was something I wanted. I was really focused on. Yeah. Like this was my goal to start my family, but I really wanted to make sure that, you know, The baby can feel everything I’m feeling. So what am I going to do to protect myself? And so, yeah, like I said, I just saved a lot. and that time I invested, and I was able to really focus on, on having a stress free pregnancy and start a business that, you know, it was on my terms.
And so I just tested a bunch of things out in that time, but. Really was able to, yeah, build my business from this layoff. So it was just really that redirection I needed.
Erika: That’s amazing. And I just feel like I want to point out, it’s not like you were being negative or cynical, like you were being prepared, right?
You looked at your job as like what we call inside of Courage Driven Latina, the sugar daddy job. Like this is just going to give you the stability you need to. Get to like, it’s just the stepping stone. It’s not the end goal. And I think what you really allowed yourself to do and what you help your clients do is look at the bigger picture rather than just like, what is the like immediate next goal?
It’s more about like, what is, where is this step taking us to, right? Like what, what’s the ultimate goal here? And for you, it was having a family. And that, Job was nothing more than like a stepping stone to help you do that.
Jenn: Exactly. Yeah, it was just the right, like, I think everything really happened for a reason and it was just pushing me to the place where I needed to be and I had no animosity really towards my employer, towards Spotify.
It was an amazing company. I was so thankful to be there for that time. but I was over being a recruiter. and I was. I had actually said out loud, like, I’m done with this. And then I got laid off a week later. So I would say I probably manifested this myself, but. I was just going to say that.
Erika: You’re just a master manifester.
Jenn: I mean, it’s kind of wild. I don’t, I don’t understand how it happens, but I am a manifesting generator. So it makes sense. Yes, you
Erika: are. Okay. So,We went to that vision board party. This is such a side note. This really has nothing to do with the interview, but we were just talking about manifesting, but we went to a vision board party and Jen already knew that she was like ready, like you’ve been married.
So like you knew you were ready to start a family within the next few years. And you found a photo of a baby to put on your vision board and then tell us
Jenn: the rest. So I knew I really wanted to have a daughter and I was like, and I found this picture. I just Googled cute baby and I found the first baby, like all the babies that came up were bald.
And I found the first one with hair cause I knew my baby was going to have lots of hair. because I was born with a lot of hair. And literally my baby turned out to be just looking just like that baby once she was around six months. it was kind of wild. And, it was just, A placeholder really like, I’m going to have a daughter and I’m going to name her Lucy.
And yeah, that’s, that’s worth talking about. I’m like, okay, this whole manifesting thing and really visualizing something, it makes a big difference for sure.
Erika: Yeah. Didn’t somebody ask you, how did you get a picture of your baby on your vision board?
Jenn: Yeah. I’m like, it’s Google. I Googled her and then I made her.
Oh my gosh, I love this. I love this.
Erika: Okay, let’s go back to career stuff. What advice do you have for people who are afraid of the job market because of all of the layoffs? Like either they’re in a job and they’re fearing a layoff or they are almost discouraged from applying to jobs because they’re afraid they might be laid off.
What advice would you have for them?
Jenn: So if you’ve already been laid off, I would say the market, like these are cyclical things. I saw my mom get laid off once every 10 years, cause her like industry was very much a cyclical thing. Like, you know, markets go up and down, certain industries go up and down.
Like this is, Layoffs are part of the career trajectory of corporate America. And so if this happened to you, obviously very uncomfortable. but just know like your skills, your transferable skills. It doesn’t have like you don’t have to go back into the job that you were in. you can change careers like you don’t have to be stuck to one career or you don’t have to be stuck to something Because you went to school for it Like this is a perfect opportunity for you to really look at what you actually want to do Like when in your career do you have this time off that you’re pushed into?
to re evaluate what you’re wanting to focus on. So that’s the like if you’ve already been laid off That’s what the the The advice I would give. and then if you’re afraid of layoffs that they’re coming, like start really under, like, you know, keeping an eye out on those interesting conversations that your manager may be having or like changes in your job, like start to really prepare because a lot of the time those layoffs can be like, Oh my gosh, I did not see that coming when, you know, the writing was probably on the wall.
You just thought you probably weren’t going to get affected. And it’s honestly, it’s not even a personal thing. Like. Like, I think that’s something really hard that I have to usually walk through with my clients. It’s like, it wasn’t personal. Usually it’s not performance based. It’s literally a number like you, they had like a certain team have to cut off this many people.
And then you start thinking, but why was it me? And then it just, there’s no point in having an answer for that. It’s just like, just know that. If you can get this job, you can get another job and, personally, like I’ve seen plenty of my network get hired in recruiting and so the fact that more and more recruiters are getting hired, that means more and more jobs are opening up.
So very cyclical, but I advise you to take advantage of every situation that you’re in, like, build that emergency fund. Don’t build it for just three months, build it six months to a year. That’s what I’m starting to telling my clients is really to build that emergency fund of all your fixed expenses for at least minimum six months at this point, because that’s typically what I’m seeing is, is what’s making like the.
Amount of time people are taking to find a new job, but just get yourself to a point where you feel really comfortable with your money and it takes time. That’s why I definitely do advise coaching, to really get your head around your money because you really want to make sure you’re organized and ready to go just in case anything that unexpected comes up.
Erika: Love it. Yeah. Such good advice because what, especially the part about it’s not personal, but I think especially in our culture, it’s like, there’s so much pride. Tied to your career and to working and to being a good worker That any layoff can feel so personal and like I must not have good work ethic But what i’ve actually seen as a coach that has had many clients be laid off Is that?
A lot of times my clients had this desire to go do something else or to switch careers And they wouldn’t have done it if they weren’t laid off It’s like almost the door gets closed for you so that you could go pursue something else So to jen’s point look at it as an opportunity to re evaluate And then also like what you were Saying about if you’ve already been or like if you think you might be laid off Like how can you start preparing for it, right?
And it’s like what I find though is that people just sit there and freak out and they’re like, oh my gosh What if I get laid off, but they’re not really doing anything to prepare But like some of the things you could be doing is like updating your resume looking at the job market like using Time like if time fork is slow use it to work on your resume Project, right?
Whatever like passion project you have, start building your skills, take a course. Like there’s so many things you could do to be preparing behind the scenes, but people are just like focused on like the overthinking of like, what if I’m laid off and like the shame there. And I think what you’re really helping your, your clients do is remove the shame and actually take action,
Jenn: control what you can like truly take control of your finances, your skills.
You know, being able to communicate your skills, practicing interviewing, really tapping into your network. These are all things that you can control, that can get you closer and closer to even a better opportunity. So I think there’s a lot of things that we need to take advantage of in that time, but also just like, yeah, take ownership on those things that you can really focus on.
Love it.
Erika: Okay. So I feel like you’ve given some really good advice around career. So let’s say that somebody, cause you really specialize in helping people increase their salary so that they can then build their wealth. This is something that you really were able to do when you were at Spotify before you were laid off.
And that’s how you were able to fund your own maternity leave. So I mean, like, here’s the thing. You could go help people get like a 10, 000 raise, 20, 000 raise, but if they don’t know how to manage that money, they could end up in the exact same place. So tell us a little bit about your wealth building strategy to fund your maternity leave.
Was it just saving from like savings one part, right? Saving from like your, your pay raise when you went to Spotify, but like
Jenn: what else happened?
Yeah, I think. So I started really focusing on my personal, like my finances in 2020. So it had been some time of me building these skills and putting them into action.
So, at the end of 2020, I invested in a home, right outside of Austin. And then in 2021, not even a year later, I bought a house in, with my husband in Florida. So we had been managing, like building these assets, putting our increased salaries, Towards these assets and you know, it was COVID time. So like we weren’t going out, we weren’t planning vacations.
It was very much a time for us to save. And so what I would say is really focusing on, you know, what are the, your expenses, like really look into like what you’re actually spending on, where can you cut expenses for your time being something that I would learn really through personal finance is like, you can look at everything as like a budget.
So, you know, this month, I really need to build up my emergency fund for this amount. So I’m not going to, I’m going to turn it down on like the amount I go out or how much I’m drinking, things like that. So really looking at every single kind of. Stage and like a season of where you’re in as like, you can adjust your money in certain ways.
So I, during that time, I really focused on. Okay. I’m going to build 5 by assets, and take advantage of that time. So I’ve really built up my. portfolio on real estate and then yeah, focused heavily on saving. So, and then I was like, okay, well, I can focus, I can also invest in myself through coaching too.
So I joined programs. I was like, okay, business is what I really want to focus on. So where am I going to put in my, put my money to be able to build some skills, build, like learn from others that have already done it and really be in a, in. Like the environment I need to be in to be able to build my business.
So those were the, where I kind of, I really focused on my investments and really helped me grow my net worth, but also grow that interim, like that, that stress free maternity leave I was able to have, and then go full force on my business, once it was ready.
Erika: Yes. Oh my gosh. And you know what, as you were talking, one of the things that, I learned from you and Xiomara cause you two did the wealth building workshop together inside of Courage Driven Latina, but I’m pretty sure it was you.
You talked about value based spending. And, like I always come back to this term cause I’d never heard it before. And it’s, I think it’s, And the values can shift, I think, during different seasons of your life, which is, I think, exactly what you’re saying. And in the last three years, a big value for me has been building a sustainable business.
So a lot of my expenses go to team members and contractors and coaching programs for myself. like obviously things for the podcast, like sometimes I’ll go rent a studio or equipment for the podcast or the technology we’re using. Right. And that’s something that. is a big value for me and something that I’m working at right now.
And I think for you, the value based spending that you had during that time was like, let’s get our assets ready because we’re not going out. Like that’s not something that we want to invest in right now. But, for some people like traveling could be something that they really value, right? While for other people, maybe a night out could be something that they really value.
And that might seem really silly to like you and I, but if that’s something that they value, So I think a big part, and I know you help your clients do this too, is identifying what their values are. And I think also maybe identifying what the goal is and how they can align their values to their goal.
Jenn: Absolutely. Like, for me, I was just so, I got into this very kind of, like loop of just being Buying a lot of clothes. And so I like, I saw a sale, I had to buy clothes. And then during the pandemic, my closet is full of clothes that I don’t even like, but it was on sale. So I bought it. So that did not align with the value of where I was at the time.
So my value was to build up my assets. So not shopping, not doing this and not to say. Now, actually in 2024, I’m over here, like I’ve invested in a stylist. I’ve like now it’s a time where I’m actually focusing on building up my wardrobe because I’m now in the season where I need, I want to build it. So it doesn’t have to be a forever thing.
You can just look at these different stages and prioritize your values of what you want to focus on next. Is
Erika: there anything I haven’t asked you either about career or about like
Jenn: wealth that you’d like to share? I think really like being able to take risks in a way that I think that’s the beauty of what finances can do to for you is being able to take risks.
So I think a lot of the time, like, oh, I, I, I’m in this very comfortable job and I feel, you know, like, where else can I get, you know, this flexibility, that’s something that I just really want to challenge people is really focused on what more is there out there for you? Not just, I’m really comfortable and this is great right now.
Like flexibility and comfort, like. That is could change tomorrow. Like you can have a boss change. You can have like a change in leadership throughout the whole company. You just never know. So I would, I just really encourage you to like look outside of the box and, look outside of your career because you have no idea the type of opportunity you, you can have somewhere else, you know, Finds another job, make a lot more funds, have that be your sugar daddy job, build your own business.
It’s just really being able to like see your career as really fluid versus just like, all right, I’m here for 20 years and then I’m going to retire. And that’s when I get to have my fun, my fun life. And I think I’ve just challenged people to really question that. I think
Erika: that’s such good advice about the fluidity because people think it has to look a specific way.
It’s not like change is the only constant, especially in the job market, especially with technology, right? It’s like you could work at a company that’s like the best company to work at. And then. Your company could literally go under because AI took over, right? Like you never know actually, Oh my gosh, I don’t even think I told you this.
So the job, the last tech job I had, whenever I had started my business, so it was my sugar daddy job when I started my business. And it was like the best tech job that I had. And, my mom was like, you’re crazy for leaving this. Like everybody thought I was insane because this was in the thick of the pandemic, the business was actually growing.
I’m sorry, the company was actually growing during the pandemic because it was all virtual stuff. It was like zoom things like it had all these cool stuff anyways. But I followed my intuition and I was like, I need to go start my business. And I left and tell me why. At the end of last year, they closed the company.
Like they went through three rounds of layoffs and then the company went under. And I was like, you never know. And like, everybody thought I was insane for leaving and the company doesn’t exist anymore. Had I stayed, I would have ended up getting laid off. So like you, it’s going to be fluid. And it was exactly one of those things where the technology just shifted and it was unnecessary.
It’s almost like, was it Kodak that like. Went under whenever, no, I mean, obviously we still have Kodak, but,
Jenn: Blockbuster with
Erika: Netflix. Yeah. And then I swore there was also not, not actual Kodak, but like the, cause now we have digital cameras, but it was like the actual, obviously the company is still around, but I think the actual, yeah, like the, the, the,
Jenn: you know what I’m trying to say?
Yeah. Yeah. The film. Thank you.
Erika: Yeah. So you never know what’s going to happen. So Jen’s advice is. Excellent advice. And it’s not even just for career, like it’s for life. Change is the only constant, right? And I mean, I think even you like your job, you’ve gone through so many like versions of shedding, but even like becoming a parent, like then like managing your finances as an individual versus like a partnership, like having a husband.
And then like, there’s so many things to navigate and so many different identity shifts. So I think you, are that advice you’re giving is just like applicable to so many areas of
Jenn: life.
Absolutely. And with every change, it can be really difficult. but no, you’re just gaining more skills. Like I am like a.
I was a master job hopper, and I used to be really self conscious about that. Like, oh, I just kept on changing jobs. I had family looking at me like I was crazy, but with every job change, one, I made more. Two, I was able to just be myself. My network just doubled every time and I just was able to gain new skills.
So, you know, when you’re looking at a job too, like when you’re in an interview process, like a lot of the time recruiters look at like, what kind of environments are these people are you used to? So like, if I’m hiring for a big company and like, do you have big company experience or do you have startup experience?
So you can, you know, you don’t need as many resources. Just know you’re. Your background and all your different experiences is building up your ultimate experience that you can offer today. Love it.
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Jenn: Yay.
Erika: Okay. So let me fast forward to like Where we are now. So obviously we’ve worked together because you were inside of Courage Driven Latina.
So I’ve seen the inception of you becoming a coach to now being this like badass coach, because you are in Magnetic Mastermind. And I was writing down some of like the wins that I’ve seen from like just being your coach, but.one of the things, actually, I was looking at your entry survey before we jumped on, and you pretty much said that what you were looking for was staying consistent on social media and selling your services through your content and then adding a financial component of coaching to your career coaching.
And you’ve like done everything and more. So you have started posting on LinkedIn. Tell us a little bit about the struggle of showing up on LinkedIn and then what happened once you
Jenn: started.
Yeah, that was a wild ride. I would say, it so for me, for LinkedIn is where my decade long recruiting career, that’s where all my contacts are.
Everyone I know is on LinkedIn. I’ve really built, I’ve really focused on building my Instagram because Instagram, like no one knew me, like I’ve built, I built that. that community very organically. but LinkedIn is like where everyone knows me. so as a recruiter, not only did I, was I connected to my colleagues, but I was connected to mostly all the candidates that I would interview.
So I had a really big network there and I was just so afraid to just come out and be seen in a way. I, I was just like, Oh my God, what if like this coaching thing doesn’t work and then I have to ask them for help, you know, how, like my ego is, it’s going to get hurt and all of that. So it was a lot of mindset work that I had to work on.
and then, you know, you kept on constantly at like, did you post on LinkedIn yet? LinkedIn is going to be the place you need to be, Jen. And I was like, I know, I know. I, I give workshops on LinkedIn like that. I like, I’ve been giving workshops for almost two years about LinkedIn and how great of a platform is, but I wasn’t using it myself to build my personal brand.
like you can use it. I can teach you how to use it, how to get a job quickly. But, but I was not on there as like showing my business. So then I finally wrote my posts and I. Had made like four different versions of it. And, you know, I was like, enough. Like I have been talking about how I’m going to do this.
And in February I posted my first post and it went viral. my whole network was very supportive. Like I was getting some really sweet messages from my old colleagues. Just like, I’m so happy for you. This is so perfect for you. Like they just like, I see it. Obviously you would do this, Jen. It was just a lot of encouragement.
And I was like, I was so afraid for so long to be seen by them when all they want to do is support me. so it showed I was able to get, you know, a full schedule of sales calls of Clarity calls. Because my network interacted with the post, their network saw the post as well. So it really blew up. And in a way that, you know, I got really vulnerable in that post.
I shared my layoff story, um, and I was just really raw and I just got so much great feedback on it. So once I saw the reactions from that, I’ve just kind of been like, that was the. Band aid I needed ripped to just feel really great. So now I’ve been posting on it weekly and I just feel so good on it. I’m like, I have a lot to say and I have like, I really feel like I can be a thought leader here.
So yeah, I was like, I can, of course I can be here. Why, why not?and so the confidence really builds up from there. And, Yeah, I’ve just, I’ve, I’ve been able to get my first high ticket clients from that post. And so I’ve been really, really focusing on, you know, cause when I opened my business, I was figuring out different iterations of what I wanted to offer.
And it just like solidified that like, yeah, what I’m doing is, is really helpful. And I know like, obviously with all my experience, I can get, I can do this too.
Erika:
Yes, exactly. And I really feel like you have stepped into like being magnetic on LinkedIn and like, I’m just going to quickly read off the steps of what it means to like be magnetic because I think a big thing that we worked on for you is, okay.
So the first thing is for the magnetic framework, and then I’m going to go back to like where I’ve seen you just completely transform. So the first thing. To be magnetic is that you have to decide what you want. I think you knew what you wanted. There was, almost a little bit of back and forth of like, how do I fit these two in together?
And now it’s like, Oh my gosh, it fits in like a puzzle. It’s just perfect. Like you were specifically helping people do the things that you’ve helped yourself with and helped so many other people do. But sometimes it just takes going through it to like, be able to see it so clearly. So you knew what you wanted.
And then the second step is believe you’re worthy of it, right? Believe you’re worthy of having, having it. And then the third step is taking the aligned action. And then the fourth step is allowing yourself to receive, which sometimes can be really hard for us as women, especially like women of color, where we’re so used to giving and the receiving part is actually very difficult.
So what I have seen in you is a complete transformation in your belief around your worthiness. Like you just said, I know I can be a thought leader and I feel like that’s what we were navigating because there was like, you knew you could do this because you’ve helped people so many people do this, right?
But it’s just, there was something about LinkedIn that was like letting yourself fully be seen. And then also like when you showed up, you showed up in your most vulnerable self and then it was received. Because it impacted so much. It touched so many people. It was relatable. Right. And you like, even if people didn’t book a call with you, you’ve helped people with that post.
So when you like, now that you’ve really, you’re like, Oh, I’m unquestionably like worthy. Now the aligned action is just coming so freaking fast. easily. And to your point, you’ve secured your high, high ticket clients from that post and from showing up and like the demand keeps coming. So how does it feel to like have stepped into being magnetic to magnetism?
I feel
Jenn: so good. I feel so empowered. I feel so confident. I feel just, you know, Granted, I did this also during postpartum. So we, when we started this Magister Mod, I was three months postpartum and I was very raw. I was going through all the emotions, lots of changes. and I just wanted to be surrounded by other people doing really amazing things as well.
And I wanted to be coached by you who actually planted the seed of. Jen, I think you should be a coach. And I just, you know, you planted that seed two and a half years ago. And now I’m here just like, I really wanted to marry those two of like finance and career. And I just thought they were just had to be completely separate in my head because I, I just know career.
So I have to talk about career when it’s like, I know what I know. I know a lot about personal finance that I can help people with. And I actually was told a couple of days ago, it’s like, Oh, that’s a really unique take on career and money. by melt melt making the two that’s not common. And I was like, Oh, okay.
I have something here. So I really think that, I have, I, I’m learning how to do things my own way and I’m feeling really confident rather than, you know, just going along with my decade long career. It could be a 20 year career. It can be this, but really like I’m literally learned how to do things my own way and, and accept kind of that I’m doing these things for a reason too.
Erika: Yes, exactly. And you’re right. I think sometimes we fear like things being different, but. That’s when you know, you’re being innovative, right? Like you’ve literally found your niche here.
Jenn: Yeah, I mean money and career. That’s something we focus on so much more than we. Think, or we can just put it on, you know, autopilot and just like not pay attention to it when then it’s like, oh, so just, yeah, I think just people knowing that they have options and learning about those options is really important.
Agreed
Erika: agreed. And if people aren’t following you on LinkedIn, they definitely should be. So we’re going to include all your links down below. I just want to make sure that I say that, but I’m going to say that before we end the episode as well. So Jen, tell me like from your perspective being like a client inside the mastermind, what kind of results and transformations do you think you’ve gone through being inside of the mastermind?
Jenn: I think I’ve really learned how to sell myself on my offer, but in turn that’s helped me Show up on Instagram, show up on LinkedIn, show up in ways that I was too afraid to. like just really think about myself and my career and all the opportunities I have so much more because I have that worthiness and I’m like, I know I can do this and have that confidence behind it.
So. It’s helped me put things into action. something that I really think is really important, especially about a mastermind is using that time super wisely to ask the questions to be able to come prepared. And I took this investment as like, you know, I’m going to pay for this and I’m going to show up and like, I.
I’ve never missed a call because I really put in that time and being able to, you know, I need to get the most out of this opportunity. So, I think I really, yeah, I think just being part of the mastermind. Kept me accountable for the things that I really wanted to accomplish and just push me more and more to like, okay, why do you feel uncomfortable?
And getting that, that coaching, consistently, cause sometimes you can really need coaching on one topic multiple times. It’s like, okay, that made sense. yeah, let me work on that. And then nothing happens and like, okay, I still haven’t done this. Okay, Jen, what’s going on? so really being able to dig into like, okay, why am I not acting on this?
but also this came to like, with the support of therapy as well. and I actually started going to therapy when I was in courage driven Latina, because I just, I was just like, I’m going to, am I crazy that I’m kind of open to therapy? You’re like, absolutely not.We all need therapy. So, so yeah, so I think for me, just being surrounded by, you know, people at different stages of their businesses and seeing people also in even you sharing the, the different challenges that you’re dealing with your business three years in, that’s just so helpful to know, like, okay, like, Those are the challenges I can expect at that time too.
So just hearing more, learning more, and just like being really open to the feedback and also pushing myself to take that action and seeing what the results turn out to be.
Erika: Yeah. I think Jen, if you wouldn’t have invested in the mastermind, like you, I don’t, I don’t, cause he, that’s what happened to me.
Like when I invested, I was like, I didn’t pay this money to like, not take this serious. Like it really makes you show up. And I just like also just have to commend you. On so many different On a few different things, because first and foremost, you’ve asked for coaching when it’s even uncomfortable. So like when you had me review your consult call and I went through it and nitpicked on any little thing that I thought could use improvement.
And I was, you know, and it’s like, you’re not paying me to be a people pleaser. You’re paying me to help you become the best coach you can be and to help you grow your business. And. so like, I really was like, I’m going to give her her kudos when it’s, when it’s necessary. Cause you did a such a good, an amazing job on that call.
But there was also like opportunity for growth that I was like, she is ready to like step into this. So like you asked for coaching when it was uncomfortable. So to your point, asking for coaching multiple times on something, there can be so much shame around that and you still showed up and you did it.
And then like, whenever you ask for feedback on your call, But the other thing I wanted to point out is like, Jen, you have helped me become a better coach as well. Because when I asked for feedback on the mastermind on like what’s working and what’s not working, you gave me feedback and you helped me become a better coach.
So do you want to share like your perspective on this?
Jenn: Yeah, I mean, I think I really can just be open and it come from like a really compassionate place. and yeah, I think I just shared feedback. I was like something just feels a little off and then so I was really open And I shared that with you and you took it with like Thank you for that.
Like you were very appreciative of it too. I was very uncomfortable to share feedback because yes, the people pleaser in me, does not want anyone to feel like uncomfortable or bad, or think that they’re doing like they they’re not doing the things that they should be or anything really. but really being able to step in and, and to give you that feedback and also you take it in a great way as well.
So, yeah. Yeah, I think I, I think being a mom has really helped me be a lot more clear about these things. Like I, I, I think I have a lot more, more of like a comfort sharing feedback because it’s always going to come from a really good place. I don’t want to ever gossip. I don’t want to ever nitpick.
I don’t know, ever want to like get to a point where I’m coming. I’m part of an experience and I’m not enjoying it a hundred percent. So yeah, I think the feedback, being able to, like, Have the courage to share the feedback was a lot for me. And I, and I, I was really happy with it and I really appreciate the, the way you took it as well.
Erika: Good. I’m so glad. And I’ve been in, I, and here’s like the way that I thought about it too. Cause as a coach, it can also feel like, Oh my gosh, I’m messing up. People don’t like, I’m not a good coach. Like they don’t want to be here anymore. But like the way that I took it is. If I didn’t receive the feedback, I wouldn’t know.
And she would still be having this experience. And she has given me an opportunity to change what’s not working and make it a better program. And when that might, like, I feel like coaching really requires you to remove your ego. Out of the coaching container, because I’ve been in many containers, as I was telling you before we started recording where the feedback was not taken in a good way.
And it just kind of ruined the whole container for everybody. Like I have one coach who like received feedback from one of the, clients, not myself, from somebody else in the program. And then that person was removed from the program and it was just like, okay. Or I’ve had like other ones where like the coach will literally like talk shit about the people who are in their program.
And it’s like, these are your clients. Right. And I think a big part of, of coaching, like as you’re coaching other people, it forces you to also step into, Like it’s going to be a mirror. Like a lot of times your clients are going to be mirrors back to you. So being a coach and being coached is like life changing.
It really is. Cause it gives you an opportunity to just step into the most authentic version of yourself. And I just think that you are one of those clients that has really forced me to become a better coach in a very positive way. And I’m just appreciative, which is why every time I’m in Austin, I’m like, Jen,
Jenn: let’s meet up.
I love it. Yeah. And like, you know, this was the first time of me being in this long of a container too, and this was your first iteration of Magnetic Mastermind. So like, I can’t imagine how much better it’s going to be like with one experience too, and then completely, that’s the beauty of business. We have these different iterations of how we can make our business even better every time.
Yeah. And
Erika: Exactly, exactly. So, another thing that you did inside of Magnetic Mastermind is come up with your Rich Framework.
Jenn: Do you want to tell us a little
Erika: bit about what your Rich Framework
Jenn: is? Yes, absolutely. So, Rich really spelling out, Rich is like, you know, first we really focusing on rewriting your money, beliefs, your career, beliefs, your values.
so I really helped my clients focus on those because sometimes it can be the me. Like I was told I should do this career path or I fell into this and I don’t really like it. So really re being able to rewrite it. and then there’s. All about integrating. So the I is integrating systems to be able to invest and save.
So we just want, I just want you to be really, really comfortable and you’re building the foundation of your financials. So, you know, if a layoff happens or if you get an increase in salary, like, you know what to do with that. You’re not just going to go and like inflate your lifestyle to the point where now you’re.
You’re a living paycheck to paycheck with this new increase, money. And when women have money, especially like we have options and we really need to be able to hone out honing on that. And then C is really. Everything about your career, leveraging your career, growing your career, being able to get promoted, but also focusing on like, how am I going to negotiate?
How am I going to gain the skills? What are my transferable skills? Anything around interviews, everything career, like that’s where we’ll focus on.
H is really honoring your values and ensuring that everything that you’re doing is in line with your values. and just honoring everything that you’re focusing on. So, yeah. I think it’s on, it’s like, it’s really being honest with yourself as well.
So, I think we’re, a lot of the time we’re given this, like we’re just told what we should and shouldn’t do when it comes to your career and your money. and unfortunately a lot of the times, especially being first generation, like. Our parents were taught something and like an American dream is one thing.
but you know, I’m like even thinking outside of the box and, and I’m really focusing on how can I change up my life? How can I relocate my family? How can I have these options? How do I, can I give my daughter this certain education? So I, it’s really being able to honor your values and really be able to find those opportunities for yourself where you, you know, feel more in alignment every day and that constantly changes.
It does.
Erika: Oh, I love that. I love the H. And this is the first time that I’ve heard you pitch it like this because obviously we, we kind of like went back and forth. You, I mean, it’s your framework, but like we went back and forth with it. And this is the first time I’ve heard you like say it. And I’m like, it sounds even better than what I remember.
And I’m just so excited because like everything is falling into place so well for you. And I love the last, letter of age, because that was one of the main things I learned from you, right? Like honoring your, your values when it comes to the way you spend your money, but like money brings up so many life things as well.
So like, it’s just really honoring your authenticity and who you are and the way we spend our money and time like dictates our life pretty much. Right. So yeah, yeah, that is beautiful. So, I only have a couple more questions for you. One of them is, who do you think is a good fit for magnetic mastermind?
Like, who do you think should join this next round of the mastermind?
Jenn: I would say someone who’s already started their business, but maybe needs a little bit more clarity around their target audience and just like really kind of. building their business and finding that opportunity to like, feel worthy about their business.
because sometimes I feel like, we can start our business without too much information and we’re really depending on like what we see online and where we should, we should really focus. But if you’re really looking to like scale your business and find your business, that’s In alignment with what you’re wanting to focus on.
So before I joined the mastermind, I had already started my business. but I was offering like smaller packages. I was testing things out and just something felt off about it. And I feel like you really helped me figure out like, and step into that identity of being this coach that can work with people longer term.
and that’s how I was able to get a lot more impact and results for my clients. So, That like really nailing down your business and being able to step into that too.
Erika: Love it. Yeah. Great job. You’re like, you’ve pretty much just verbally, expressed a lot of the changes that are coming to the, to the masterminds.
Like for example, you have to have had. Three paid clients or, 3, 000 followers in order to join the next round of the mastermind. So, more, more about that to come, but the, yeah, thank you for that. Because I feel like you, you hit the nail on the head. The other question I have for you is where can people connect with you and how can they work
Jenn: with you?
Yeah, for sure. So I am on LinkedIn. So Jen Jamali, J A M A Z N M A R Y A L I. Tamale with a J. but I’m also on Instagram at first gen J E N N money. so really focusing on the first gen experience, but having a twist with my name and the way I’ve been able to help my clients. And so we work in a 12 week container, so typically three months.
and we really. Break down your career, kind of where you are financially, but also like where your money mindset is too. and then also break down where you are in your career. Are you wanting to make, maybe make a career move or really wanting a promotion and really wanting to negotiate your salary?
So I really help my clients get a lot more clarity and confidence around their career and their money. Yeah.
Erika: So you get to work one on one with Jen and she takes you through her rich framework and you get to figure out your own, like, who is it? That says that, like, what does your rich life mean to you?
You’re like helping people do that.
Jenn: Yes, exactly. Yeah. I think it’s so important just to know that once you have your financials down and your career down, like you can just dream so much bigger. And there’s actual dreams, not just like, I need to do this for 30 years and then I can have fun with my life.
That we don’t, we don’t, we don’t prescribe to that.
Erika: Not at all. Not at all. And yeah. I mean, when I’ve, whenever I have a family, I’m going to be running to Jen. I’m going to be like, how do I do this? I’m going to be coming to you for help now.
Jenn: Oh man. Having a family is no joke, but honestly brings so much more purpose and why to what I’m doing too.
Cause I really want, to help people. I would say my why has really turned into like, I want to get to a point where my daughter who is eight months right now, is, you know, making six figures and negotiating your salary and owning real estate, owning your own business. That’s completely normal to her because she saw her mom do it.
She saw. Like everyone around her taking control of their life and their financials. So that is really the biggest, my biggest why for sure. Oh,
Erika: beautiful. Okay. We’re going to end here. Cause that was just such a great way to end.Jen, thank you so much for coming on the podcast. Thank you for being such an amazing client and an amazing coach.
And I will see you soon. Thank
Jenn: you. Thank you so much for having me. This is awesome. I’ll see you soon.