Chingona Revolution is hosted by Erika Cruz, a rebel who left a 6-figure tech job to pursue her own unconventional path to success by following her passion that led to her purpose. Every week, Erika will bring out of you that BADASS LATINA through her experiences to overcome self-doubt and family expectations and lead with COURAGE.
Constantly comparing yourself to the people around you can be so triggering, especially if you are an entrepreneur or a content creator. If you’re online all the time for work, it can be hard to filter out what’s real and what’s hyped up for social media. And even though you don’t have the full story, you find yourself getting frustrated watching other people land opportunities that you want.
It’s so easy to compare yourself to the people around you. It’s a very human response, but it doesn’t have to be your only response. You learn to accept people’s achievements without feeling like you’re lacking anything.
In this week’s episode, I’m going to teach you how to overcome the comparison trap. I’ll tell you how to stop these thoughts when they happen, how to embrace an abundance mindset, and how to start being more magnetic. Tune into the full episode to find out how!
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Erika: Hello, and welcome back to Chingona Revolution podcast. In this episode, I want to talk to you all about comparison in today’s world. When we live in the era of social media and just instantaneously getting updates about other people’s lives, I want to validate How common it is to be triggered by other people’s accomplishments.
And so, and what I want to talk to you all about today is how to overcome that comparison trap. It’s easy to compare yourself just because you are human. But if you are an entrepreneur and a content creator, and you’re spending a lot of time on social media because it’s something that you use for, for marketing or for your business, and you see that other people are landing opportunities that you desire, it can be.
So triggering, even if you’re not an entrepreneur and a content creator, literally just seeing somebody online who just got engaged, when you know that it’s something that you desire, or whenever you see that somebody, um, has gotten pregnant, if you’ve been trying to get pregnant or that somebody took a trip to a destination that you’ve been wanting to go to,
It’s really easy to be triggered by these things. And what I want to talk to you in this podcast episode is how to overcome comparison.
The first thing I want to say about comparing yourself to somebody else is that you are only getting the part of the story that that person chose to tell. Let’s say that somebody got engaged. You don’t know how many arguments happened before this engagement, how many difficult conversations, maybe how many therapy sessions, maybe if they broke up or, you know, like we don’t get the full picture.
We just see what that person has shared. Or whenever somebody is an entrepreneur and they share like a client win, you don’t know how many clients maybe said, or how many potential clients said no to them, said no to even working with them. You don’t know how much rejection a content creator received.
Before landing a massive opportunity with a brand, we never know the full story, even when it looks like somebody has had overnight success. Rarely is that the case people look at me and they think, Oh, Erica started her business in 2020 and then grew it to multiple six figures within 12 months. And then has created a million dollar business in three years.
I’m like, yeah, this business, but in reality, a lot has happened to get here. I had a food blog before this. I was a yoga instructor before this. I mean, I’d been trying different things for a very long time and those things didn’t work out. This specific business, this pivot, yeah, it had success early on, but it was on the building blocks of everything that I had done before.
So that’s the first thing that I would like you to just observe. If you have found yourself recently comparing yourself to somebody else’s path to somebody else’s success, remember that you don’t know their full story. You are only seeing what is. They choose to show you, and you know, there’s that saying, like, don’t compare your chapter one to somebody else’s chapter 30.
You never really know what chapter people are on. Even if, even if it’s a friend of yours, right? You don’t know what thoughts they were having, what life challenges they had to overcome in order to get to where they are. So that’s the first thing I want to mention. The second thing I also, I also want to tell you all, side note, there are no notes in front of me right now.
So bear with me. If we go on little adventures, I may be going on different rants, but
the second thing I want to mention is that when we are triggered by somebody else’s success, That tells us that we don’t feel like it’s possible for us, or else we would not be triggered. So, typically when we are comparing ourselves to somebody else, it’s because they have something that we desire.
Notice, and I know I’ve talked about this before, On the podcast, but notice that we’re not comparing ourselves to somebody who maybe doesn’t have a home or we were not comparing ourselves to somebody who has a life that we do not desire. Like, I know that I probably want kids one day, but if I saw some lady at the store with 10 kids and like, look like she had no sleep, I would not be comparing myself to that person.
Right. But maybe I might compare myself to the entrepreneur who’s able to, Manage their business and like have a child. And I mean, this is, I’m not in a rush to have a baby FYI, but I know that one day it’s something that I would want. So I just, I’m mentioning this to point out that we aren’t going to compare ourselves to people that are in undesired situations, we are comparing ourselves to people who are in our desired situation whenever they have something that we desire.
And whenever you feel triggered, it’s because. You don’t believe that it’s going to happen for you, or you believe that their success is taking away from yours. So let’s say that an acquaintance of yours or maybe a colleague of yours was invited onto a massive podcast and You are super triggered because you’re like, oh my gosh that person got an invite and I didn’t and you’re taking it personally Well, okay.
There’s not just gonna be one person Ever invited to this podcast, right? Like what if the fact that your acquaintance just got on the podcast makes it easier for then you to get on the podcast because now there’s a mutual, mutual connection. So as we are looking at comparing ourselves to other people, it’s really important to note that the trigger is coming from us unworthy of having this.
And that’s where the work is. The work isn’t to control what opportunities or things happen in other people’s lives. The work is to identify what triggers are coming up. And I have a podcast episode on comparison from, I think when I first started the podcast. And one of the things I talk about then, which I think is important to bring up again, is that comparison equals clarity.
A lot of times we’re looking at comparison as this horrible thing, but if you find yourself comparing yourself to somebody else, that’s clarity on what you want, because I just mentioned that we’re not going to compare ourselves to somebody who is living an undesired life. We are going to compare ourselves to people who have things that we desire.
And if you’re over here looking for clarity, look at comparison. Where are you comparing yourself? And take it for what it is, take the information from it, where, okay, I’m comparing myself to somebody who just wrote a book. Okay, cool, that means I want to write a book. But just because that person wrote a book doesn’t mean that I can’t write a book.
And that’s where we let comparison consume us instead of help us. Comparison doesn’t have to be a bad thing. When we get into the comparison trap where we’re just in this cycle of, Oh my gosh, well that we’re almost acting like as a victim, like, Oh, that person has this and I don’t, that’s not helpful.
It’s helpful to look at comparison as, Oh my gosh, my friend just became booked out. I love that this person is my friend, that I get to go to this person for help. And I will admit that when I first started my coaching business, I And I mean, I have a lot of friends who are coaches, right? And a lot of my friends and I have shared clients.
Clients have not just worked with me, but also worked with them. Or maybe they started working with them and then they came to work with me. And now I’m at this place where I’m like, my, my friend just had a six figure lunch. Hell yeah. Like, yes, I get to be in this person’s energy. I’m so excited that this person’s my friend.
I’m happy for her success. But when I first started, I wasn’t there. And when I first started, I was like, Oh my gosh, somebody’s like working with this friend of mine. So like, now they’re not going to be my client or, or, Oh my gosh. I was like, possessive about my clients. Like, Oh my gosh, my client’s now working with this other person.
They’re going to compare our coaching when it’s like, no, what if I was the coach they needed in the season that they worked with me and now that they’re working with my friend, then that is exactly the season they’re in now. Like how cool that we together get to be coaches who change this person’s life.
So it took a lot of mindset work to get here, but it’s so possible. And now when my friends have success, I am so happy. Even though at the beginning, I didn’t have this comprehension yet. I didn’t have this awareness. So I’m bringing this up to validate that if you feel triggered when one of your friends or acquaintances or somebody that you follow on social media has a win, don’t beat yourself up about it.
It’s, it’s normal, especially in our culture that is so rooted in scarcity. Or at least in the Latino culture, if you, I actually literally in, scarcity is all around us, right? It doesn’t matter what culture you come from.
I want to make one more point before I give you some tips for. Not falling into the comparison trap. So the last thing I want to say is that no amount Of hating on somebody else’s success is going to lead to your success. And I believe I talked about this in the law of attraction episode or maybe on an Instagram live.
I talked about it somewhere, but I think it’s worth bringing up again. Actually, I have two things to say. So one is this, see, I told you, this is what happens when I don’t have notes, but I’m trying to, I’m trying to organize it for you all. The thing I want to say is that no amount of hating on somebody else’s success is going to lead to your success.
What do I mean by this? Okay. I mean, if you’re looking at somebody’s success, somebody’s life, somebody’s business, and you are just hating on them, that’s not going to bring more success to you. What will bring more success to you is actually celebrating other people’s success. Which I know is hard to do whenever you’re very much in scarcity.
But let’s say that a person I follow just landed, um, my dream job, right? Like let’s say you’re looking for a dream job and they land a dream job that you really want and you just are like nitpicking at everything they did to get this job and like really hating on them. That is just putting you in the energy of, of hating and you are going to attract more hate.
Right? You’re just looking for the negative instead of thinking about it from this perspective of, Oh my gosh, this person in my radius just landed this opportunity, this career move that I desire so much. And now I know somebody there that I can leverage and talk and just kind of learn. And even, even if you don’t talk to this person, just observe their steps, notice that it’s the same situation.
It’s just being looked at in different ways.
The other thing I’d like to offer to you about this scenario is that The abundance you see in other people is always available to you as well.
I’m going to say that again. The abundance you see in other people is always available to you as well. The fact that you’re listening to this podcast episode, the fact that you are in my radius, the fact that you’ve seen me create, um, This podcast that you’ve seen me land, well, if you follow me on Instagram, I do a lot of brand deals.
I just finished a brand deal with QuickBooks. I am working on another one with a few different companies. I’ve worked with Burt’s Bees at this time. I’ve worked with Harvard. I mean, I’ve worked with McDonald’s. I’ve worked with so many different brands. So the fact that you see that in my life means it’s available for you too.
Anything you can see. in your mind you can create in real life. You really can. And this is, I know this can feel like really woo woo to some people, but all creation begins in your mind. All creation begins in your imagination. And before I give you the solution to falling into the comparison trap, I have one other story that I want to share with you.
And I’ve shared this story, I think, when I first did the podcast episode about how to overcome comparison, right when I had started the podcast, but it’s such a good. Story that I’m going to retell it
So this story is about our two dogs, Noah and Paloma, and our dogs are Mexican AF.
When they see the tortilla press come out. They are ready to sit, do a little dance, anything they need to do to ensure that they land a homemade tortilla. They love tortillas. And one dog, Noah, uh, who was our older family dog, has since transitioned. When I first told the story, we still had Noah with us in the family and he is in doggy heaven.
I think I’m gonna cry. And he, um, my mom always said that he was the man of the house because he was the only man who lived in our house and he’s now transitioned. So now there’s four women in the house. There’s Paloma, who’s the, the, my, our dog, then my cat, who’s also female, myself. Well, I’m only there part time because obviously I travel a lot.
And then there’s my mom.
So I would make tortillas for Noah and Paloma. And a couple of times I gave Noah his first because he is older, he was older and he would take a lot longer to finish his, so I’d give him his first and then I’d give it to Paloma because Paloma just inhales it and just, you know, tries to eat it super fast and then tries to steal it from Noah, or tried.
and. I remember I had just finished making tortillas and this happened a few times and the last time this happened I had this like realization of the point that I’m making in this story. So I’m making the tortilla, I press it, put it on the comal, I flip it. It started to, you know, get like inflate and that’s how you know that it’s good.
And then we’d put a little, a little bit of cheese from Mexico inside. And then I would make it into a little taco, but I would wait for it to cool down. And the dogs are like super excited about eating the tortillas. Like Noah would bark cause he was just so excited about to eat a tortilla. And then I handed Noah his little taco and he like ran off and I was going to hand Paloma her little taco.
But Paloma had already ran off after Noah. So Noah grabbed his, his little taco and he ran off. Remember Noah’s the older dog that didn’t have that many teeth and would eat a lot slower. So that’s why he got his first. And then instead of Paloma like waiting for hers, she ran after his. And this is what happens when we get stuck in the comparison trap.
We’re so busy looking at other people’s. Blessings, other people’s success, other people’s opportunities, other people’s significant other, other people’s job promotions that were missing ours. I had Paloma’s taco in my hand, but she ran off after Noah’s. And this is what we look like when we are in the comparison trap.
We’re so busy chasing other people’s accomplishments that we’re missing our own. We’re missing the ones that are right in front of us. And the universe is like, uh, hello, I just needed you to wait a little bit. Pero aqui esta, like here’s yours. Here’s the one that’s for you. And I love this story so much because it’s a visual representation of what we do.
When we get stuck in the comparison trap, we’re so busy looking at other people’s energy, so busy looking at what they’re doing and chasing them to, to see how we can get it ourselves instead of like acknowledging that somebody got something. And saying, Oh, look at that. Like, let’s say that we’re in Paloma’s shoes, the way that she could have reacted.
Obviously these are dogs, right? But it’s just a good visual representation. But if Paloma would have looked at Noah’s taco and been like, Oh, dope, we’re getting tacos, right? And like, looked back over at me, she would have seen that I had the taco for her, but she was so fixated on Noah’s taco that she chased his and was no longer being magnetic to receive hers.
She was no longer in the place to receive. And that’s what happens when we get stuck in the comparison trap. So with that being said, let’s talk about how to overcome the comparison trap. You’re going to get so tired of me talking about being magnetic. I was going to say it’s being magnetic, but you know what?
We’re going to go even deeper because what does it, what does it mean to be magnetic? It means to be abundant. The way to overcome the comparison trap is to lean into abundance, to know, to believe, to understand that there are an abundance of opportunities in this world, that one person’s success doesn’t mean that you get less success.
And the interesting thing about abundance is that it all starts in our head. It all starts with our mindset. We could focus on the unemployment rate. Or we can focus on the hundreds and thousands of jobs that are posted on LinkedIn. We could focus on not having clients, or we can focus on the clients that we are calling in and how it is that we are going to transform their lives.
We could focus on how we’re not growing follower count, or we can focus on the followers we already have. and serve them. The thing about abundance is that it’s all around us. Whenever you feel stuck in scarcity, how can you take a pause and literally just look around? Right now, from my point of view, I see an abundance of trees.
These trees have an abundance of leaves. It would be impossible for me to go and count all of these leaves, even just from one tree. And I know that this is nature, right? But nature is a teacher for us. And as I’m looking at all of these trees, I’m like, this is evidence that there is abundance. There are 7 billion people in the world, right?
So if you’re, if you’re over here fixated on one like toxic partner, remember that there are 7 billion people in the world. And just like there are an abundance of leaves and an abundance of people, there’s also an abundance of opportunities for you and for me. And the opportunities I take don’t take away from the opportunities you take.
And the thing is that these opportunities, these people, these leaves, like this abundance is always there. It’s always existing. It’s up to us whether we want to see it or not. It’s up to us what we focus on. So when you find yourself comparing yourself to somebody else, ask yourself, do I know the full story?
The answer is always going to be no. The next question you should ask yourself is what is this teaching me? what is the thing that I desire from this? That I maybe didn’t know before. Somebody just landed a speaking engagement. I found myself comparing myself. Cool. Looks like I want to do some speaking.
And then three, I want you to ask yourself,
just because this person landed this opportunity or got this thing I desire, does that take away from me also being able to get it? The answer is always going to be no. And the biggest thing I want you to know is that you are the source of your own abundance. A lot of us believe that, oh, my job is responsible for my abundance, or my partner is responsible for my abundance, or my, my generational trauma, right?
But you are responsible for your abundance. If you get laid off, you could go find another job.
If somebody breaks up with you, you can go find a different relationship. It was never the boss. It was never the job that gave you abundance, that gave you resources. You were always the one that created them. So abundance lives within you. I know we’re getting pretty deep here, but as we think about comparison at the root, comparison is scarcity.
And the interesting thing is that when we all, all like, I mean, everybody in the world is living in authenticity, then we don’t actually all desire the same stuff. I mean, yeah, we’re all chasing the same goals because we’ve been told that we should, but not everybody wants to be a millionaire. Some people want to go live on farmland.
Like we all have different interests. And if we allow ourselves to fully follow what it is that we want, scarcity wouldn’t even really be a thing because we’re all different with what we desire. Not everybody wants to get married and have kids. Not everybody wants to be an entrepreneur. Not everybody wants to speak on stages and it’s okay for you to, you know, have and desire whatever it is that you want.
But when you lean into an abundant mindset, everything changes. Rejection doesn’t feel personal anymore. Comparison just becomes clarity. It doesn’t become anything else.
This is why inside of Magnetic Mastermind, we are doing a 30 day abundance challenge where we are tapping into an abundant mindset to manifest the life and the business that we want. This is something I did on my own when I was first starting my business and it gave me so much clarity on what it was that I wanted and it allowed me to stay open, open to possibilities, open to opportunities, things that I could have never even imagined began to happen.
Erika: I was invited on Amy Landino’s podcast or detail therapy and she was somebody I followed on YouTube. Um, I’m not sure if you all follow her, but I was like a huge fan of hers and she got on Tik Tok and I sent her a message on Tik Tok. I was like, Oh, welcome to Tik Tok. I love your, your YouTube. And she’s like, Oh my gosh, do you want to come on my podcast and talk about Tik Tok?
I was blown away because, and I know this sounds like nothing now compared to everything I’ve done, but imagine. I was still working a tech job. I didn’t even know what my business was. And I have just landed a podcast interview on a podcast that I have listened to for years from a person that imagine like landing, I don’t know, maybe this is how you feel about Chingona Revolution.
Imagine sending me a DM and I’m like, Oh my gosh, do you want to come on the podcast and talk about it? And it was just, it blew me away. And I was doing this abundance Challenge on my own where I was visualizing my life. I was tapping into abundance, and this is what we’re doing as a group inside of magnetic mastermind, because it really starts with your mindset.
When you are leaning into abundance, everything else is easier. Your strategy becomes easier. Action taking becomes easier. Overcoming adversity becomes easier. Everything becomes easier. You’re going to go through hard times. We all are. But it’s what you do with those hard times that matter. If you are listening to this on the date of the release, today is the last day to schedule a call for the Mastermind. This is the first and possibly the only time that we are hosting an in person event in Santa Monica, California. I just booked the venue and it is amazing. I am so, so excited to host the Mastermind group.
You also get to meet just a majority of my clients because we have the Courage Driven Latina event that same weekend on the day before and you get a free ticket for that as well. And there is so much power in meeting people in person and having in person events. when I first attended my in person event, that’s where I came up with the idea to start a coaching business, especially a coaching business focused on women.
And I’m still friends with some of the people that I met at this event. In person is Magical. It really, really is. And then after that, we get to work together for six months. So if you’ve been wanting to work with me, this is a great opportunity to join the mastermind. You get to work with me for six months.
We get a two day live event. It’s going to be epic. We’re going to do the abundance challenge. We’re also going to talk about magnetic marketing. I’m going to teach you my framework for content. I’m also even going to do content reviews. So you, you get to submit your content to me. I give you feedback on it.
And then you can post it. We’re going to help you come up with your overall marketing strategy to ensure it’s not hustling, to ensure it’s not chasey, and to ensure that it is abundant and magnetic, and you are going to double your opportunities inside of the mastermind without pitching yourself, if you have an intuitive pool.
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And I’m not sure if we’re going to do this again. So this is your chance to win. To get in and work together. So I’m shuffling cards over here because I figured that I can do a little card pool. This is something that I’m introducing in the mastermind. I’m actually taking a class on tarot reading, tarot cards.
and I figured I could do a card pool, so go ahead and pick pile A or pile B, and then I’m going to give you a little reading. Let me just shuffle over here. Okay, so in your, in your mind, pick, do I want pile A or pile B? Pile A or pile B? Don’t overthink it. If you need time, go ahead and pause.
Okay, if you chose pile A, I actually ended up pulling four cards. You’ve got the Hermit card in reverse, the Three of Cups, and the cups represents emotions. You’ve got the Fool card as well as the Daughter of Cups. So This is telling me maybe you’ve been seeking or having a lot of alone time, isolation time.
Maybe you’ve been feeling a little bit lonely, and this could be lonely in your healing journey or in your growth journey. Maybe you’re physically around other people, but maybe emotionally or intellectually you’re feeling a little bit alone. You’re feeling a little bit isolated. Maybe you’ve outgrown your friends, maybe you’ve outgrown family members, maybe certain relationships are no longer meeting your expectations or stimulating you the way that they once did because you are going through changes.
So the hermit in reverse is telling me, yeah, just like some, Some lone, loneliness, like isolation. Again, it doesn’t mean physical. It could mean physical, but it could also just be emotional. And then there’s also the three of cups in reverse. So if this was straight, uh, then I would say it’d be about collaboration, but because it’s reversed, I think you are just going through this time of being alone to initiate a new phase.
And with the full card, the full card is the first card of the major arcana’s and it’s. It’s the beginning of the journey of the cards. So this is telling me there’s like innocence. Like maybe you’re a beginner at something, you’re starting something new and you’re ready to kind of like take the lead.
There’s a little bit of naiveness here, but it’s not naiveness in a bad way. Right? Like when I first started my business, I was super naive for what I was like. I didn’t know what the coaching world was, but sometimes we need that in order to take the leap. And perhaps this Time alone is now preparing you to start something new.
And then the last card you got for pile A is the Daughter of Cups. And I am using the Wild Unknown Pocket Tarot deck. Okay, creative and emotional. So maybe you are in the middle of creating something new or maybe pivoting in your life or pivoting in your business or pivoting in your career.
So what this is suggesting is to try your best to stay grounded. You are a creative person and you’re meant to tap into creativity, but being grounded is going to definitely help you.
Yeah, just hop into your creativity, stay grounded, and allow yourself to jump into this next thing, even if you don’t know the full picture. That’s what I’m getting from the full card. Alright, if you chose pile B, you got the Nine of Swords.
So maybe you are going through a shadow period where you are maybe seeing parts of yourself that you don’t really like. Maybe it’s hard to sleep at night. Maybe you’ve been having nightmares or maybe you have been feeling guilty about something or maybe even a little bit of anxiety or depression. And I want to remind you that through the shadows is how we grow.
Through the shadows. Is how we
learn. We don’t learn when everything’s working great, but even though there’s a lot of mental clutter right now, or you’ve gone through mental clutter, it’s going to get better because you also got the justice card and the justice card is having you think about what decision you want to make next, because you have a choice.
You have a choice with how you look at your situation. Like to use the podcast episode as an example, are you leaning into scarcity or are you ready to tap into abundance because abundance is always there. It’s always available. Are you tapping into it? A lot of swords here. So what this is telling me, the swords is for like thoughts and it represents kind of the air signs, which I’m an air sign. And the third card you got is the ace of swords. And this one is all about mental clarity. So while the nine of swords was all about, like, not clarity. You then get to make a decision through the judgment card, and then you get to use your best judgment with how you want to think about this, how you want to feel about it.
And then the Ace of Swords. Ace is always kind of a new beginning, and there is almost like the truth is going to come to light. You’re going to have a lot more clarity. And then the last card you got is the judgment card in reverse.
So with the judgment card in reverse, this is telling me that you are allowing fear and self doubt to hold you back from making decisions that are necessary for you to move forward. And you really are in the place to take action right now with this ace of swords card. Even if you don’t have all of the information, you’re stuck in indecision because you want to have all of the pieces, but you’re never going to have all of the information.
At some point, you really just have to make a decision and trust yourself because in the end, everything’s going to work out. It, even if you make the quote unquote wrong decision, it’s going to lead you to a lot more clarity than if you don’t make a decision. So allow yourself to make the choices, even if you don’t have all of the information right now.
All right. Hopefully those readings resonated. And I will see you all in the next episode. Do not forget to schedule your call. I can’t wait to speak with you about magnetic mastermind and I’ll see you next week.